You tend to create criterias for friends...
You'd be looking for people that suit those criterias...
Only very selected few would be in that circle of friends
I've seen this happen more times than i can remember...
I dont blame them for doing so though , coz i am that way myself...
Take a look at my secondary school friends...
Ive been in the same class as some of them from Sec 1 through Sec 4
namely Sean , Jon , Meiyan , joyce , jolin , peck teng and forgive me if i forgot some of you
And then take a look at my new friends...my poly friends...
Ive told my poly friends more personal stuffs as compared to my sec school friends
and ive only known my poly friends for like a few months...
gaaaahhhh idk what im talking about anymore here...
When friendship gets personal , it tends to make you look like a jerk/bitch
Dumping old friends for new ones...
then rebounding back to your old ones when the new ones fail to meet your criteria
or something like that...meh
do i even make sense
gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah
and i come to question myself...
Is it better to have a small ring of close friends or a big ring of good friends...?
this ofcourse is subjective to everyone's preference...